A relationship drama that involves food allergies and the need for a woman to be tense about what many contributions on social networks have promoted, with more than 5,000 reactions and about 2,000 comments to date.
Describing herself of herself, 24 years old and the mother of an 8 -year -old girl, the woman said she became pregnant when she was a teenager and has not “left exactly” since her son was born.
“My daughter has a condition called ARFID (Avitative/Restrictive Food Admission Disorder),” he wrote. “It means that it has a very restricted diet, and is very connected to its ASD (autistic spectrum disorder). I do not force it to eat certain things that are its’ insecure foods.”
Since the girl’s diagnosis, the mother said she has become “sure I could also have it, but I cook both and I am self -sufficient, so it doesn’t bother me day by day enough to think about it.”
Then, “about a month ago,” the woman wrote, “I have an appointment … We are on dinner and it was incredible. I was very open to meet my daughter in the future and be a family man.”
She added: “I only do serious relationships, so, this is something that was discussed in the first date, hahaha.”
She said the “second appointment” with the man recently occurred. “I get used to your place [to watch] A movie. Hey now. “
Unfortunately, she said: “She looked incredible, [but] I felt horrible that I told him, I couldn’t eat it. “
She continued: “In general, if something is an insecure food for me (such as melted cheese, vinegar), I will still drown it to be courteous, and simply vomit and cry later.
However, “most importantly,” he wrote, “I am actually allergic to eggs. Quite severely.”
She said the man knew this: “As I said on the first date. It was great with this on the date.” But when “hey gave me the food [at his place]I apologized that I couldn’t eat it. “
Then, the man made reference to how they needed to “spend this mayonnaise thing.”
He said that the woman’s daughter also had to overcome her problems.
He wrote to the woman: “I was quite angry at that comment, and I backed away that I was not eating her gross food and not talking about my daughter like that.”
She said that “he apologized instantly, saying that this is not what he cinematized and that it was a stupidly rude joke. I said that I regretted calling his gross food, he really looks really good.”
Then, the couple ordered some food to McDonald’s, said: “And I went home shortly after. It seemed good.”
Later, he said, he sent a text message to the man who “had fun a lot and [was] Sorry for the situation. “
He replied that he was fine but “mentioned” again that she had called her “disgusting” food and refused to eat it.
“I was completely ignoring the part of the allergy,” he shared, “and saying:” You really need to do this … it is childish and it is not the way in which a child. “Things like that.”
She added: “I know that being demanding is annoying, but I don’t feel that I have done anything wrong.”
Many Reddit users seemed to agree with her.
“He is not the one,” a person wrote. “According to his attitude and what he said and how he acted, he is the guy who does not believe that allergies are real. The food continues to be a problem with him.”
Another Reddit user begged the woman not to see the man again.
“He intentionally made you food that you could eat,” the person wrote. “He has tried to cancel his son’s raising. This was the second appointment. He is being incredible controller, he is surviving and is already being cruel with you.”
Lauren Manaker, a southern Carolina Mother and registered dietitian, agreed.
“It seems that this gentleman is not educated in certain issues related to nutrition and reached some conclusions,” Digital’s Fox News told Fox. “He could
Manaker said that Aphrid “is a very real and serious condition, not something that an individual can simply” overcome. “
Diane Gottsman, Founder and Owner of the Protocol School of Texas in San Antonio, Told Fox News Digital That When Visiting Sub’s Home For Dinner, “It’s Not Inappropriate to Let Them Know That You Suffer from A Severe Intolance, Such A Nutly at Nutty A Nuty A Nutty Nutty Nutty Nutty Nutty a Nutty a Nutty a Nutly “” “” “” “” “”
In this case, the woman “did the right thing to let him know.”
Gottsman said: “The problem is that they had a verbal debate back and love, which included the name and a verbal insult with respect to their daughter.”
“It is likely to be an indicator of what you can expect in the future. People cannot help their medical conditions and rule out a potential health danger is an inconsisit.”
Gottsman said the man “should have accepted the information graciously and have maintained his comments about his daughter for herself.”
Manaker said: “If a friend were in a situation like this, I encourage her to think twice before entering a relationship with someone who does not take a medical condition seriously.”